Abstinence: 4 Absolutely SWEET Things To Do Besides Sex
While sex is all great and dandy, sometimes engaging in everything but can be just as exciting. Whether you and your woman want to wait before diving into the juice pool or you just want to add a little exhilaration to your love lives, today’s tip is going to be a boatload of fun.
So unzip your pants, but keep your willy at bay because we’re going to focus on virtually everything… but sex. Remember that there’s nothing more stimulating than anticipation.
Yeah, I know, what a novel idea. But indeed, sometimes a kiss can be orgasmic depending on how good you are at it. But be careful, if you’re too good, she may end up begging you to satisfy her carnal desires.
Use your tongue to slowly arouse her senses. Look her in the eyes and slowly lick her lips with your wet tongue. Hold her face with your hands and kiss your way down her lips, to her chin. Then lift her face and begin sucking sensually on her neck.
As well, a woman’s back is very sensitive when it comes to soft, wet caresses. So make your way behind her and use your mouth to breathe heavily down the small of her back whilst letting your tongue out at times to heighten her arousal.
When you’re done with her upper body, make your way to other parts that you would typically leave out when it comes to sexual intercourse. Lick between her breasts while you firmly grip on them — but don’t lick them just yet, the name of the game is to bring each other to sensual ecstasy. And don’t worry, in due time, she’ll grab you by the hair and make you suck on the desired body parts.
Make your way down to her navel and slowly lick around it. Keep in mind that you shouldn’t do these things in haste, there’s no rush — not yet at least. Slowly move over to her hips where you can slowly bite and suck on them until she can’t take it anymore.
Another very sensitive area of a woman’s body is the inside of her thighs. Remember, because it’s so responsive, I don’t recommend any biting or aggressive actions such as chewing or biting. You can harden your tongue and lick them, or you can open her legs wide and lick between her outer labia and her thighs. Trust me, she’ll be freaking out.
Looking for more sensitive areas? Try behind her knees; again with your hardened tongue, lick and even suck the designated area.
Do you like pussycats?
licking the cat
When she comes to the point where she begins saying things like “please, don’t stop” and “oh, G-d yes”, it’s time to start teasing her little kitty. Place your hands under her buttocks and let her rest her feet on your shoulders while her legs are in a butterfly position (spread eagle).
Do the “Morse code” with your tongue on her clitoris; that is, use the tip of your tongue to lightly tap her clitoris. When you see that it’s driving her crazy, start kissing it slowly, like you would her mouth.
If you don’t already have the lowdown on traveling south, then you’ll need to brush up on your Cat Skills. And don’t worry, once you’ve done your duty, remember that every dog has his day. And if she argues that that’s going too far, inform her that if Willy Clinton says that it ain’t sex, well then, it simply isn’t. Happy b-low.
If you want to satisfy each other to completion, then perhaps mutual masturbation is the answer for you. Or, you can always get her to enthusiastically place her mouth on your instrument while she remains horizontal to you, so that your fingers have easy access to her pleasure patch and, of course, butt-spanking convenience.
While she’s using her mouth to drive you wild, you can use your fingers to find her G-spot and get her to reach the climax that will have her knees shaking. But if she doesn’t head south, then perhaps you can both bust out the lube and get your privates nice and slippery.
While it may not be the equivalent of a mouth or vagina, sometimes her stroking hand can drive you to immeasurable heights as well. And don’t forget, you can use your hands to drive her crazy too. There’s nothing more beautiful than watching your woman’s face while she reaches the pinnacle of orgasm.
Being submissive is the way to go.